Katie the Pure Romance Lady

For some women, the G-Spot is an area that can yield intense pleasure, others can take it or leave it and more than a few are still trying to find it. Whatever category you fall in, let’s make sure you’re well informed about the holy grail.

To find her Insert a finger into the vagina and move it up the upper wall of the vagina. There is an area of tissue about one or two inches inside on the upper wall of the vagina that feels noticeably different to the rest of the wall of the vagina. When a woman is sexually aroused, it swells and becomes smooth and soft. When her arousal drops, it becomes harder and feels more ridged. For a G-spot orgasm to occur, generally the G-spot will have to be smooth, relaxed and engorged.

G-spot simulation sometimes feel similar to “I gotta pee!”, which may last up to a minute. This is because the G-spot is so close to the bladder. You may be tempted to stop the stimulation because you think you might be going to urinate, but the feeling will change to a highly sexual pleasurable feeling, and the orgasm that follows can be deeper and more profound than a clitoral orgasm. Please keep in mind that not all women will find G-Spot stimulation pleasurable, so if you don’t like it go with what works! There is no law that says you must have a G-Spot orgasm to be successful in the sack!

If you’re trying this for the first time, have your partner place the heel of their hand over your clitoris and their fingers curved down and round to enter your vagina. If your partner makes a “come here” motion with the fingers that are inside you vagina, your G-spot should begin to respond and you may begin to feel pleasure. Try different motions: pressing, rubbing, thrusting at various speeds until you find what works for you. .

Let me know how it goes and feel free to email with any questions!

The male orgasm is pretty straightforward – strength of orgasm may vary, but overall, everything is pretty much status quo in your man’s pants.

As we know, women are more complex. We have a wide array of erogenous zones, including nipples, ears, feet, etc. Typically, however, the zones that produce the most O’s are the vagina, the clitoris and the elusive G-Spot.

Here’s a little introduction to each of these pleasure zones:

CLITORIS:

• Its only physical function is to provide sexual pleasure
• Direct clitoral stimulation is is often less pleasurable than stimulation of the areas surrounding the clitoris
• The clitoris extends about 5 inches inside the body
• The clitoris packs about 8 to 12, 000 nerve endings, that’s as much an the entire penis and testicles combined.
• Most women claim that the clitoral orgasm is the most intense
• In his book Sexual Behavior on the Human Female (1953), Charles Kinsey found that out of 2700 American women, half received orgasm through clitoral stimulation

VAGINAL:

• Top one to three inches of the vagina is the most sensitive
• Many women claim that it is more difficult to achieve a vaginal orgasm than a clitoral one.
• Freud labeled this type of orgasm as the “mature” type, whereas the clitoral orgasm was an “immature” type of sexual experience (A General Introduction to Psychoanalysis, 1916)

It is important to note, however, that one type of orgasm is not better than the other – they are simply two different ways of experiencing pleasure.

Every woman has her own preference over which orgasm provides the best pleasure and an increasing number of women are learning to have both!

Tomorrow, we’ll venture down the road to the holy grail-the G Spot Orgasm.